To teach your puppy “stay,” the most important thing to remember is to take it in baby steps. Too many owners make the mistake of turning it into an endurance contest: how long can the puppy stay before he moves?
Start by putting the dog into a sit (if your dog doesn’t yet know “sit,” find tips here) at your side. Tell him “stay,” and, if you are lucky, you will be able to stand upright right next to him without him moving. Don’t try to walk 10 feet away. You need to be within touching distance to praise and reward him. But pay attention! If he gets up before the reward gets to his mouth, quickly retract it, and remind him to sit again, in the very same spot. It’s very easy to reward the dog for getting up instead of staying.
When your puppy stays while you are close enough to touch him, move a short step away. Don’t ask him to stay longer than a few seconds; it’s important that you be the one who decides when the stay is over, and you want him to succeed. Go back to him and reward with treats while he is staying in place.
Gradually add distance and time (and eventually, distractions). If, at any point, it becomes difficult for the dog, move closer to him and lessen the time you are asking him to stay.
When the stay is over, release your puppy by tossing a treat or toy. You can say “Okay!” or “All done!” in a playful way. Be sure he gets up and goes after the treat or toy, so that he knows he’s free to do what he wants.
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